5 things I hate bout my neighbour!!!!

1. they are totally busybody!!!!
people always said that a good neighbour is a neighbour who take care about their neighbour...but isn't it annoying if our neighbour like to stuck their nose in other people matters??? so just keep it low if u'r really interested in other people life...
2. they are inconsiderate
they build their house so damn big but they still put their junk in front of other people house... it's okay if they seen other people house became messy as long as their house look beautiful..
3. they are full with jealousy
- they cannot stand if other people is better than them... they like to surpass other people... why??? we malay why don't we help each other...don't be like a crab..they cannot stand if other crab surpass them so they will grab the other crab... for them if he can't make it other crab would have the same ending...
4. they love to nibble
- is not like i don't like to nibble but we have our own limit and we abide by it... if we talk about other people ant then don't feel upset if there would be other people talk about us back... like people always said what goes around come around...
5. they are selfish person
- for them anything have to go through them first. doesn't matter anything. if they do not receive anything other people would also would not receive anything..if other people child receive a little bit success they would pray for their failure...
~ people would not always be at the bottom and they would not always be at the top so just beware ofr the consequences...take a deep look in every action we take because ALLAH s.w.t is fair enough~

What do we need in a relationship???

There are several tips for a better relationship...let's go through some of it.. 

1. Honesty and loving communication...

- Honest communication is a top priority in relationship.. it is very crucial to have an honest communication in every relationship because if we lack of honesty that will lead to a meaningless relationship.. for example men really love if his women would confidently asked to met or answering question with honesty... not only men even women like me i really appreciated my man if he would answer everything i asked with honesty.. as people always said that honesty is the best policy...=)   we may think that if we are being to honest it would cause us to lost our dignity or we afraid that if we tell the truth our partner would leaves us...but don't you think that if our partner really love us they will accept us just the way we are.. so just be honest and experienced an honest love story!

- woman like me always believe that men want us to be superficial, always keep our need into a silent mode and we also think that men think that if we are too sensitive men would always annoyed or whatever...but don't u think if our relationship do not have any of this thing it would cause our relationship to be flat and lack of flavour... so try to have a better communication in love...=) so build up your courage and confident and talk top your partner about how you actually feels...

2. We need a self-sufficient, secured and confident partners

- When we decided to choose our partner we want to choose them out of want rather than out of desperation  either materially or emotionally. We need to be wanted and needed by our partners, but we still want our partners to have a separate identity. We want our partners to be active and independent, to have their own friends and interests.

On the other hand, we want our partners to be part of our life and we also want to be part of his or her life too.. always remember that even if we in a serious relationship we still have some time for our own interest...so don't make your love affair as a reason to dominate your partners. respect each other personal matter and this would be the key to a better relationship. Men want what women want which are a whole partner. one powerful way to attract a great man and build a vibrant relationship is to create a full, rewarding life for your own fulfilment.

3. Growth, personal responsibility and ownership partners.

-We want a partner who can laugh at herself and who has courage and strength. We want a partner  who can see his or her part in relationship dynamics and own it. Our partners have to be emotionally stable. We would want a partners who is developing her or his self personally, and who takes responsibility for their emotional experience. Usually we want a partners who are emotionally mature. Maturity does not mean lack of emotions but it means that we have the ability to handle emotion responsibility. To attract a great partner and build a long-term relationship, learn to take responsibility for your emotional experience and expression. 

that all tips that i can share with you all.. Love is something that we have to search and hold it as love would not come by its own... for those who their love story lack of this above try to fill all the black spot in your love line with trust, love and affection toward each others. for those who have fill their love with all the above... well done keep all the good work!!!

LELa- Bidadari!!!!

duk layan youtube
tengah layan lagu dari LELA tajuk dia Bidadari!!!!
best sgt2...lirik dia memang menusuk sampai terkeluar jantung hu3...
so layan.....

Counting the Days...

Counting the days rite now...
lagi 4 hari...
16.07.2011 genaplah  perhubungan kami selama empat tahun...
thanks b for always be with me..
thank you 4 accepting me the way i am..
thank you for willingly tolerate with me...
i owe you a lot..
so i pay you with my love..fair and square rite hu3...
sorry for not taking care my heart properly...
hu3 ada terwaving cikit kat someone else..
tapi i already learn my mistake here...
B pun jangan nak waving2 okey...
pandang-pandang jeling2 syg xkisah but lebih2 is totally prohibited hu3...
ini amaran keras dari kerajaan hati SHaSha hu3...
i would always love my abang gemuk forever hu3...
muah sekali...
muah dua kali...
and muah banyak2 kali...

Karok Oh Karoke....

semalam after mengajar tusyen for my two lil student aku pun berniat untuk mereleasekan tension di kepala...

apa lagi nak p k-box jauh bebenor and ada sifat malas jadi aku pun decided to go to my aunt house..

nasib baik umah dia ada set karaoke so apa lagi kami pun menyumbangkan lah suara kami yang memang sedap sgt nie ha3...habis sumbang lagu 2 kami sumbangkan...

banyak jugak lagu dinyanyikan even lagu Maher Zain...

tapi  usually if karok lagu wajib mesti lagu 90an..xder memang xsah...

even husband aunty pun joint venture...

tapi banyak2 lagu aku nyanyi and dengar diorang nyanyi ada satu lagu nie yang wat aku tangkap leleh cikit..

syahdu jugak lah dengar dia nyanyi...

disini aku sertakan video klip aku kidnap dari  youtube...

tq org yang upload kat youtube 2 (Rock Keras)...

pas2 disertakan juga sekali lirik dia courtesy dari Lirikkami (try ar tgk site nie banyak gila liril lagu)...

Disini Pasti dari UTOPIA

Terbangkitlah mentari
Purnama kesiangan hari
Aku masih di sini
Meratap cinta yang abadi

Ku terkenangkan cinta yang silam
Yang terbina dari dua jiwa
Suci tak ternoda
Walaupun kucuba melupakan
Ku tak berdaya

( korus )
Mengapa oh kekasih dirimu
Yang terpilih
Menyambut lambaiannya
Waktu ku tiada berteman

Mungkinkah kau dan aku
bisa kan bertemu bercinta
Bagai dulu kekal untuk selama-lamanya

Sesungguhnya hanya
Dia yang mengerti

enjoy k lagu nie...memang power ar!!!!

Law Attatchment Program (LAP)

akhirnya LAP sudah berakhir...detik 3bulan yang kurasakan begitu panjang akhirnya sudah melabuhkan tirainya semalam bersamaan dengan 08.07.2011...
Banyak yang telah ku pelajari ketika program ini...
Alhamdulilah segala ilmu yg diterima akan aku gunakan dengan sebaik-baiknya...
kepada semua akak-akak di MT Muar dan kepada Puan-Puan dan Dato'-Dato' Hakim terima Kasih 4 everything... all your assistant during My LAP is highly appreciated...
Rasa macam kehilangan pula selepas 3bulan bekerja disini...
kepada rakan seperjuangan Praktikal student from UTM...Jetjet
i'm gonna miss u bebeh...kerja elok2..jgn rindu kami taw hu3...
teruskan perjuangan lagi seminggu jek ni!!!!
Lastly gamsa hago yeoleobun hago modu neomu salanghae

Ya ALLAH kuatkan lah semangat hambamu ini...

emosi sgt2 tergangu pagi tadi...
pelbagai berita sedih diterima...
entah apahal lah seperti terlalu banyak mata2 yang tidak berpuas hati dengan kami...
alasan yang kukuh tidak di ambil peduli...
asalkan hati mereka puas...
sedih pilu remuk hati insan lain dicampakkan ketepi...
begitu murah nilai persahabatan dan perkenalan ini...
hanya kerana sifat dengki..
persahabatan yang aku pelihara aku sayang mungkin bakal berakhir?
memang hati ini tidak sanggup dan tidak mampu menerimanya...
tapi insan-insan ini yang telah mencampakkan persahabatan ini dahulu...
salah aku kah jika membalasnya semula?
manusia sering berkata biarlah apa yang orang lakukan ke atas diri kita...
kita bersabar dan memaafkan...
tapi aku hanya insan biasa yang lemah bagaimana aku mampu untuk menghalang perasaan aku ini???
akhirnya pada Allah aku berserah memohon ampun atas keterlanjuran hatiku
membenci mereka...
sedaangkan Nabi ampunkan umat ini kan pula aku manusia biasa...

some people are so lucky...

some people are so lucky...
they rich with love and fortune..
they can go anywhere they want coz they can afford it...
money is not a big deal!
in fact money is nothing...
some people are so lucky...
they maybe not rich with money like other people but they reach with love...
their life full with love and care of each others..
money may be a problem for them but it does not matter as money can be search anywhere
but love is hard to find..
some people are not lucky enough...
they do not have any fortune 
and to make it worse they do not have any love to help them move on..
so for those who read this... cherish your life as u are lucky enough to have both fortune and love or love only rather than u don't have any of it...

tahniah to my bro!!!

tahniah sgt2 kepada adik saya kerana telah berjaya diterima masuk ke UITM!
kinda excited jugak untuk dia...
hu3...seronok Pn.Normah dan En.Haron menerima berita bahagia ini...
kepada adik saya saufee study hard and smart bro...
our doa would always be with u..
jgn hampakan harapan mak ngan abah!
hu3 xsangka aku ngan dia akan graduate sesama...alahai..
hu3....

miss my beshfren at UIA!!!!!

rindu sangat2 dekat kowang beb!!!!
fyruza sory if xselalu reply msg kamoo...hang tau jelah aku xder kredit selalu but aku selalu miss ko taw!!!
hu3 bakal roomate aku and aku harap sampai kite habis belajor still akan jadi roomate...
xkisah if ada perselisihan paham or whatever but i would always love u dear!!!
Sally!!! bz bebenor ko ek kat firm 2...
hu3 xper2 kita sama2 bekerja kuat hu3...
rindu lah nak lepak macam selalu...berbual xingat dunia kat bilik ko pas 2 volcano meletus hu3....
walaupun ko selalu tegas dengan aku tapi aku tahu semua tue for my own good kan...
love u soooo much dear!!!
Umyra!!!! sory xselalu kol ko...hu3 aku nie kan xbekerja ha3...rindu sey nak hangout dgn ko tau...
muka ayu tapi mulut laser ko selalu wat aku tersenyum bile teringatkan ko!!!mish you so much..
t dah balik uia kita lepak taw!!!love u soooo much babeh!
Mastura!!!!rindu nye walaupun bwu lepak hari tue...tq 4 still kept me as ur bestfriend eventhough ko dah choose different path...ingat taw cari kami if ada masalah jgn simpan je derita sesorang...share ngan kami coz kami would always be there to listen to ur sad or happy story!!sayanggggggg sgt dekat ko mas!!!muah3
nely....gadis yg so sweet....sgt tegas dlm belajar!!!selalu risau tentang study kita!
tq for ur attention...keep smiling dear...i would always be by your side ok!!! love u!!!!
syikin!!!ur a soooo funny!!!! rindu sgt nak gurau senda ngan kin2...selalu baik sangat dengan sesiapa saja...
sentiasa gelak dengan lawak2 kita yg kdg2 xfunny nie!!!tq 4 that!!!cyg kin2 muaaah
bai!!!welcome to the group....miss ko sgt2...wlaupun lawak2 ko kdg menyakitkan sanubari tapi sekarang nie aku dah get used to it...xsabar nak hangout nanti!!!luve u bai!
wawa!nice to get to know u...aku rasa praktikal ini memberi aku satu peluang utk mengenali ko dgn lebih baik! u ar such a good friend dear!!!lurve u muah3!!!!

my baby you...

hu3 suddenly felt kinda miss him...
kami nie bercinta xmcm org len..
ada org bercinta dating everyday..
ada org couple msg hari2 
ada org kapel ketawa bahagia...
tapi aku ngan dia totally differ from others...
kalau nak manja 2 memang kalah oraang lain lah..
tapi if nak gaduh org pun takut nak masuk campur...
memang xingat dunia...
nak jumpa pun setahun sekali jek...tapi hati tetap dengan dia...
tapi tipulah if xwaving cikit kadang2...
tapi i wuld try my best to love him and only him...
hopefully dia pun sama jugak!!

mood:sedih+terkejut+xsangka+pilu+sayu=kematian BEBOLAN

mood sangat sedih sekarang....

bebolan kucing yg paling baik dan comei didalam dunia telah pergi meninggalkan kami sekeluarga...

maybe people would think that i'm a lil'bit overacted but that was the fact!

we treat our pet more like a family rather than like they were an animal...

so when we lost one of it it mean a lot to us...

the first time they open their eyes to see the world...

the first time they show their affection to us...

the first time i have a courage to cuddle them...

all still intact in my memories and for sure i would never erase it..

that's for sure...

for example our "BOBOLAN" is maybe a pet for all but this lil cat is like my baby..

for some people the death of this cat maybe like a joke so they can laugh and make fun of me for crying...

but the wound and the scar only me can feel it...

so juz shut the fuck up...

don't say a word that can hurt me at this moment...

cause i would say a mean word than u would never expect to come from me...

farewell my dear baby and i would never forget my lil bobolan...

kenchana yo....hwaithing!!! Forget things don’t mean u would heal the wound...

so never forget it...