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Friday 15 July 2011

What do we need in a relationship???


There are several tips for a better relationship...let's go through some of it.. 
1. Honesty and loving communication...
- Honest communication is a top priority in relationship.. it is very crucial to have an honest communication in every relationship because if we lack of honesty that will lead to a meaningless relationship.. for example men really love if his women would confidently asked to met or answering question with honesty... not only men even women like me i really appreciated my man if he would answer everything i asked with honesty.. as people always said that honesty is the best policy...=)   we may think that if we are being to honest it would cause us to lost our dignity or we afraid that if we tell the truth our partner would leaves us...but don't you think that if our partner really love us they will accept us just the way we are.. so just be honest and experienced an honest love story!
- woman like me always believe that men want us to be superficial, always keep our need into a silent mode and we also think that men think that if we are too sensitive men would always annoyed or whatever...but don't u think if our relationship do not have any of this thing it would cause our relationship to be flat and lack of flavour... so try to have a better communication in love...=) so build up your courage and confident and talk top your partner about how you actually feels...

2. We need a self-sufficient, secured and confident partners
- When we decided to choose our partner we want to choose them out of want rather than out of desperation  either materially or emotionally. We need to be wanted and needed by our partners, but we still want our partners to have a separate identity. We want our partners to be active and independent, to have their own friends and interests.
On the other hand, we want our partners to be part of our life and we also want to be part of his or her life too.. always remember that even if we in a serious relationship we still have some time for our own interest...so don't make your love affair as a reason to dominate your partners. respect each other personal matter and this would be the key to a better relationship. Men want what women want which are a whole partner. one powerful way to attract a great man and build a vibrant relationship is to create a full, rewarding life for your own fulfilment.
3. Growth, personal responsibility and ownership partners.
-We want a partner who can laugh at herself and who has courage and strength. We want a partner  who can see his or her part in relationship dynamics and own it. Our partners have to be emotionally stable. We would want a partners who is developing her or his self personally, and who takes responsibility for their emotional experience. Usually we want a partners who are emotionally mature. Maturity does not mean lack of emotions but it means that we have the ability to handle emotion responsibility. To attract a great partner and build a long-term relationship, learn to take responsibility for your emotional experience and expression. 
that all tips that i can share with you all.. Love is something that we have to search and hold it as love would not come by its own... for those who their love story lack of this above try to fill all the black spot in your love line with trust, love and affection toward each others. for those who have fill their love with all the above... well done keep all the good work!!!

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